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You are my friend, not HR
I have a friend. I hope you’re lucky enough to have one like him too. He’s a joy to be around. But sometimes it’s the slightly unaware way he communicates.
When that happens it feels less like my friend of 20 years talking. And more like a recital made of equal parts academic privilege and F500 corporate policy.
My friend lives in Spain where bedtimes are sadistically late. I live in Prague, which has historically had one of the earliest start times on the continent. So we tag each other a lot on DM. The response to our last electronic waltz was, “Let’s choose a mutually convenient time during the week to connect.”
“Mutually convenient time?” It felt like I was stuck in a corporate recital. But perhaps he had a long day and was just tired—and so that muscle memory kicked in. Then I reminded myself that I was trained in the same kind of recital. For the longest time I talked that way too. It was easy and oddly comfortable.
So next time around, when it comes to a “mutually convenient” time, perhaps I’ll just suggest something like “How about now?”
Everything old is new again
Back in the blog boom era (think Nokia candy bar phones) I created the first blog on a bestselling innovation and strategy book. “It’s a boring subject. No one will read it,” folks said. And that’s why you shouldn’t pay too much attention to what others say. It wasn’t until ten years and 1,200 posts later that I put it to bed.
Everything old is new again the worn expression goes. I’ve found that in business and in life it wields great truth. The baggy raver jeans I wore at university have come back in style and are almost on their way out again. People are as scared of AI as they were of having AOL dial up in their homes.
I’m starting this new blog because there are so many experiences and feelings where we can connect. Especially at a time when it seems we’re encouraged to disconnect from each other. I hope you will feel comfortable visiting here—just like those days when I used to sit down with a cup of coffee and start my morning with the blogs I loved (and not doomsday scrolling). And that you will take away something that might make you look at your day just a little bit different.